You’ve met a friend and you think you’re really going to get along, and one day you’re talking about — about nothing, really — and suddenly, he (or she) says something that runs so counter to your beliefs that you have to back up.
Wait. Did he (or she) just say that?
And what should be my response?
I am slow to make friends and haven’t had this happen much, but I have made friends with some web sites of late and I’ve gone trolling around only to find an article or an essay contained therein that sounds off-key — or is downright counter to what I hold true.
I’m tempted, at times, to remove those web sites from my increasingly long list of favorites. I mean, if they can’t walk the line on [fill in the blank], then why should I trust them on [fill in the blank]?
And then I take a deep breath and realize how childish that sounds — and how utterly in keeping with my upbringing, to close the door on conversations I deem less than holy or right or pure. After all, I have family members with whom I disagree — rabidly so — on politics, on religion, on you-name-it — but if I’m going to close the door on everyone with whom I disagree, then I’m eventually going to be in a big room all by myself.
Yeah, you probably already know this, but I guess this is my way of saying that I link to some web sites that contain some material with which I don’t agree — and sometimes rabidly so. If you wander off the beaten path set for you by my links, I can’t promise I support everything you read, and you may not, either. In fact, some of the stuff curdles my milk, but there you are: An open marketplace of free ideas. And we go bravely into the dark woods, because that’s who we are.
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