You can watch the documentary, “Searching for Angela Shelton,” here. I highly recommend it. It is not a light-hearted film. You might cry. If you lived through abuse, you probably will. But watch it, if you can. If you buy the DVD, you can skip the commercial interruptions.
Emily Bazelon asked the question earlier, and sometimes, the answers surprised her.
There were the luxury items — one guy bemoaned the loss of his cologne — but then there were the heartbreakers — like time with the family. Or starting a family.
I was driving back to work from lunch today and there at my exit was a guy with a sign “Homeless: Please Help,” and a battered bag. I reached out with some money – after inanely calling out for him to be careful as he stepped onto the exit ramp to take the money, like he needs me to be his mommy – told him to take care of himself, and then drove off. I got to work and looked down at the styrofoam container of two pieces of pizza I had on the other seat, my leftovers, and I wondered why I didn’t hand that to him, too. I almost drove back and gave it to him, but figured that would be weird.
And I’m all about not being weird.
I don’t know this guy, don’t know his name, most likely will never see him again, but I wonder how this economic downturn has affected him, or was he so low before the wave hit that not much changed for him.
We’ve talked about this before, a bit, but: Is there something you’ve given up because you no longer can afford it?
I believe this particular entrance was the only thing my son’s wedding didn’t have. My question is, though: What kept the audience in their seats? Glue? Because we would have so been up dancing, too.
Oh! You must! Here’s a description. And here’s a little more on the creator, Marjane Satrapi.
And here’s a continuation of the theme, a graphic novel to explain the post-presidential-election turmoil in Iran. (The idea was borrowed from “Persepolis,” though it is not the work of Satrapi.)
More here. I appreciate that some of the notoriety Craigslist has gained of late is troubling, but it’s equally troubling — to me, anyway — when believers separate themselves from the mainstream. I know we all make our own choices, but, but, but…and I know we’re to be in the world but not of it, but, but, but…