Monthly Archives: September 2009

The wage gap lives

vDepends who you ask, but a woman makes just less than 77 cents for every dollar a man makes working in a comparable job.

So why — with all the laws and all the court cases on the side of equality — does this gap exist?

Doree Shafrir at Jezebel has an interesting take. Negotiating is not necessarily something a woman is raised to do. Boy or girl, have you ever negotiated for a higher salary? Or more benefits? Did it feel weird? Were you successful? I have done this precisely once, and I felt icky inside. I got what I wanted, but I still felt icky.

Thank you, Sister Eve.

Here’s Eve Ensler’s take on Roman Polanski. No, his case won’t become my pet project, but Jesus H.

I particularly like this from her essay:

No one is arguing the genius of Roman Polanski, or even the pain and tragedy of his difficult life. But in the end, that has nothing to do with the crime he committed. Being an artist does not make any of us exempt from the laws of humanity — in fact, it actually makes us more responsible to them.

Rebels of the Sacred Heart

More on Flogging Molly here.

And thanks, GetReligion.

But these. Don’t. Work.

By a close vote, the Senate finance committee (the scamps) has approved busloads of money for abstinence-only programs.

Here’s one take on the effectiveness of abstinence-only programs. And here’s another and another. This is not to say that discussions about abstinence shouldn’t be a part of an overall comprehensive sex eduation curriculum. Such discussions absolutely should be included, but limiting talk to abstinence only is akin to sending kids out to battle without all their weapons. I say this at the mother of two, and the grandmother of five.

The scientific effect of fasting

vWe’ve talked about this before. Have you ever fasted for spirituality’s sake? I have and I hated it, and here’s why.

That’s right. I don’t get all holy. I get all cranky. And I think only of food. Now if you’ll forgive me, it’s time for my 4 p.m. bag o’ M&Ms.

Can someone define the “gay agenda?”

vBecause Focus on the Family recently said that Alabama’s Student Harassment Prevention Act — which goes into effect tomorrow — opens the door for the “gay agenda.”

I guess that means FOTF wants to let bullies beat up homosexuals? Help me out here. And why in their call to arms would they put “diversity” in “quotation marks?”

I’m straight. God made me that way. But if there’s a gay agenda, could someone — gay or straight — tell me what it is? Is it similar to the feminist one, where we feminist meet in secret and plot ways to flip your children to our side? Because I have several gay and lesbian friends and if they’re meeting in secret and not inviting me, well, I’m hurt.

And thanks, Right Wing Watch, for the link.

Is this art?

Yesterday, Gawker (yes, I’m a fan; call me shallow) posted a story about a so-called Rape Tunnel, where an artist proposed to send people through a tunnel and he would rape them.

I didn’t bite. It seemed too far-fetched, and it was, as noted here.

The creators of the hoax said they wanted to get the conversation going — about art. In fact, more conversation ensued about rape — and, in light of the whole Roman Polanski debacle, that’s probably a good thing.

Might this be considered evangelical atheism?

I mean, atheists and agnostics are using billboards –though I haven’t heard of any a/as knocking on any one’s door trying to change their mind about the existence of God.

But consider this: The message of Freedom From Religion Foundation will soon be on buses. Does this make them like my cousin-in-law? Or something? Different messages, same delivery system?

We actually talked about this

When Mr. DJ and I put much of our stuff in storage for a summer filled with moves (first from our palatial manse which we sold, then to a cottage by a lake, then to a cottage on an island in the lake — remember? the one with a one -holer that enthralled me far too much to be healthy? — and then, finally, to a cottage by the sea — is everyone up to speed now?) we asked the woman behind the counter at the storage place if they ever had any one sleeping at the facility.

She just looked at us funny, but as a joke — considering the rent we’re paying – we’d said immediately upon sliding the garage door open to our 10×20 bin that it would be cheaper to just bunk there for a while. There’s a bathroom down the hall, it’s climate-controlled, and my work is just a few miles away.

We were kidding. But recently, a husband and wife in Phoenix both lost their jobs, had multiple other setbacks, and moved into a storage bin set aside for homeless families by an organization called Save the Family Arizona.

I so appreciate Huffington Post’s bearing witness, and I am mindful that we are not out of this financial crisis until everyone is out of this financial crisis, and not just middle-class families down on their luck, but the chronically homeless, the woman who can’t afford her medication, the guy who smells when he comes into the 7-11, the kid with the wild hair who sings in the park. Everybody.

That’s it. Sermon’s over. Now get back to your business.

 

Turns out we’re not the first people to think of this.

Ten great moments in wisdom

vSee if any of your friends are here.

And thanks, Faith & Reason, for the link.