Nine-year olds know gender issues

This National Geographic piece is eye-opening and sad: Children know about gender issues. A sampling: At nine, youngsters from China to Canada and Kenya to Brazil describe big dreams for future careers—but the boys don’t see their gender as an impediment, while the girls, all too frequently, do.

I will finish, or die trying.

My book (working title: Searching for the American Dream in Frog Hollow, and yes, the title needs work, as does the rest of the manuscript) is due to Wesleyan University Press on Wednesday, but I’m dedicated to turning it in on Tuesday because if I don’t, I will run over my own head. I cannot emphasize …

A Duggar spin-off show? Are you fucking kidding me?

Several news websites reported late yesterday that the Duggars — the face of the Quiverfull movement, with a sexual predator in their midst — are mulling over a spin-off television show that will focus on the next generation — though the new show won’t include the sexual predator, one would suppose. (Did everyone see this? …

Raising Elvis: Read this beautiful essay

Leftover sends this, a beautiful essay about raising boys and girls. Here’s an excerpt: I’d had three miscarriages after my three girls and before Henry’s birth. I had been flush with grief. I was delighted with my family but had wanted more children—not necessarily a boy or a girl, just another baby. When my body …